You have a unique medical history. Therefore, it is essential to talk with your doctor about your personal risk factors and/or experience with genital herpes. By talking openly and regularly with your doctor, you can take an active role in your care.
In addition to your physical health, a diagnosis of genital herpes can affect your mental health and quality of life. You may feel scared,
anxious, stressed, or
depressed. Talk to your doctor if you experience these feelings, especially if they interfere with how you are living or enjoying your life.
Here are some tips that will make it easier for you to talk to your doctor:
- Bring someone else with you. It helps to have another person hear what is said and think of questions to ask.
- Write out your questions ahead of time, so you don’t forget them.
- Write down the answers you get, and make sure you understand what you are hearing. Ask for clarification if necessary.
- Do not be afraid to ask your questions or ask where you can find more information about what you are discussing. You have a right to know.
- What causes genital herpes?
- How did I get infected?
- What are the symptoms of a genital herpes outbreak?
- Typically, how long will the outbreaks last?
- What type of herpes simplex virus am I infected with?
- How common is genital herpes?
- How serious is genital herpes?
How is genital herpes different than having
- Are there any serious complications of genital herpes that I should be aware of?
- Based on my medical history, lifestyle, and family background, am I at risk for genital herpes?
- How can I decrease my risk of contracting genital herpes?
- How do I know if my partner has genital herpes? What physical signs or symptoms should I be looking for?
- Is there a way to cure genital herpes?
- What medications are available to help me?
- How long do I have to take medications?
- What are the benefits/side effects of these medications?
- Will these medications interact with other medications, over-the-counter products, or dietary or herbal supplements I am already taking for other conditions?
- How often do I have to take them?
- Will I have to take medication forever?
Are there any
alternative or complementary therapies
that will help me?
- Where can I get information on any new treatments or research?
- How can counseling or a support group help me if there is no cure?
- Just how risky is my lifestyle?
- How do I tell my partner that I have genital herpes?
- How do I know if I'm using a condom properly?
- How can I protect my partner?
- Should my partner come in for a test and treatment?
- Is abstinence the only way I can protect myself?
- How will having genital herpes affect my relationship with my future partners?
- Are there any dietary changes I should make?
- How often will I have an outbreak?
- How can I become pregnant if I have genital herpes? How can I get my partner pregnant if I have genital herpes?
- Can I take the same medications if I am or become pregnant? How can I protect my baby?
Where can I get more information about genital herpes and other
sexually transmitted diseases
- How often should I get tested for STDs or have checkups?
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Last reviewed June 2016 by James Cornell, MD
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