Thinking about your next date should conjure up warm images, not dangerous ones. Unfortunately, there are situations that may occur if you find yourself out with a friend.
Date rape (acquaintance rape, hidden rape, or drug-facilitated rape) can happen to both women and men. It involves being subjected to unwanted sexual contact (intercourse, oral sex, anal sex, or other sexual contact) through the use of force or the threat of force. The victim knows the rapist, and the act often occurs on a date.
Date rape appears more common in the young. Over 22% of women and 15% of men between the ages of 11 and 17 report experience with rape, physical harm, or stalking. Any intimate partners can involve date rape. Although it cannot always be prevented, there are things you can do to reduce your risk of being raped on a date.
Date rape can happen to anyone by anyone . The difference is that it is done by someone you know. Here are some of the more common traits in people who have been charged with date rape. Remember that just because someone may have these traits, it does not make them a date rapist.
Over 55% of date rapes involve drinking or drugs before the attack. Drinking can impair your judgement as well as the judgment of the person you are with. It can increase the risk of sexual assault because it creates a sense of false well-being. It can also allow someone a better chance of taking advantage of you, especially if you know each other. Just be aware of how much you are drinking and stay in control. Here are some of the dangers of excess drinking:
Controlling your drinking is one way you can monitor your behavior. Know your limits when you drink.
Certain drugs have become known as date rape drugs. Most are colorless and odorless, making detection difficult. They are used to reduce your ability to control situations and create memory loss. Here is a list with some of their more common nicknames:
Besides knowing about risks of drugs and alcohol, there are some things you can do in any situation.
Not every situation is completely unavoidable, but there are steps that may help keep you safe:
If you are assaulted, or feel like you may have been assaulted, seek help right away. Keep in mind the drugs are meant to impair your memory, so it is possible to not know right away if something happened to you. If you have been assaulted or suspect an assault:
Rape is a crime no matter who assaulted you. It is physically and emotionally damaging. Take time to learn about rape resources in your area. Ask your doctor about counseling or guidance through the criminal process.
Most did not expect a date rape because they were with someone they believed they could trust. The best defense is to keep a level head. Arm yourself with knowledge before you go out, learn about your surroundings, and protect yourself from harm.
National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence
Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network
Canada Safety Council
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Last reviewed November 2012 by Brian Randall, MD
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