After a year of trying to get pregnant, Jackie sought help from her obstetrician, who prescribed hormone pills. She felt like she had bad PMS every day, not to mention hot flashes, bloating, and extreme mood swings.
After a few unsuccessful, painful months, Jackie switched obstetricians and both she and her husband underwent fertility testing. Male infertility was ruled out, and her second doctor found multiple cysts on Jackie's ovaries. She was referred to a fertility specialist—a reproductive endocrinologist—and began cycles of fertility shots, daily monitoring, and artificial insemination.
"It breaks your heart," says Jackie, an emergency room nurse from Cincinnati. "You don't think you'll ever have kids, then you go through these treatments that totally mess your hormones up. You gain weight, you feel bad, and then you still don't get pregnant."
The devastation Jackie felt each time she started her period, along with the hormone-induced mood changes, took a toll on her marriage. "I can't say we were actually going to get divorced," says her husband Eric. "But we weren't getting along very well."
"If we had stopped trying, our marriage would have been in really big trouble," adds Jackie. "I would have always felt inadequate."
Conception, which finally happened after a successful artificial insemination, was not the magic cure Jackie hoped for. She developed diabetes and had to take four insulin shots a day. Her blood pressure rose dangerously high. She was hospitalized and put on bed rest for the last 12 weeks of her pregnancy, which ended early with a Cesarean section.
Two years later, the nightmare had faded enough so that Jackie underwent fertility shots and artificial insemination once again. When the techniques did not work after three months, her RE recommended in vitro fertilization (IVF). Though Jackie did not rule out this expensive option, she wanted a second opinion.
The next reproductive endocrinologist saw the ring of cysts around Jackie's ovaries and diagnosed her with polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), a condition that has been associated with high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, and metabolic syndrome.
At the recommendation of her RE, Jackie tried fertility shots again, coupled with a technique to thicken the lining of her uterus to increase her chances of conceiving. Jackie became pregnant after the first try, then miscarried.
After stopping fertility treatment for a time, Jackie decided to work with a specialist who had experience treating PCOS patients with metformin, a diabetes drug. The first month Jackie took the drug, she ovulated and became pregnant. Jackie continued to take metformin throughout the pregnancy and gave birth to a healthy baby girl.
Like millions of couples each year, Jackie learned how emotionally and financially draining infertility can be.Those who should seek fertility help before a full year passes include women who:
If you are concerned about your fertility, make an appointment with a specialist who has extensive experience in the field. A range of tests can be done to evaluate your reproductive health and help you to better understand your condition. As Jackie discovered, sometimes second and even third opinions may be needed to discover the right treatment option for you.
The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists
Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome Association
The Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada
Women's Health Matters
Infertility. EBSCO DynaMed website. Available at: https://dynamed.ebscohost.com/about/about-us. Updated June 4, 2013. Accessed October 1, 2013
Gestational diabetes mellitus. EBSCO DynaMed website. Available at: https://dynamed.ebscohost.com/about/about-us. July 22, 2013. Accessed October 1, 2013.
Polycystic ovary syndrome. EBSCO DynaMed website. Available at: https://dynamed.ebscohost.com/about/about-us. Updated August 20, 2013. Accessed October 1, 2013.
Last reviewed October 2013 by Michael Woods, MD
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